The Delivery & Post-Birth Process
For me, December 10, 2024, will forever be a date filled with magic. The experience was something I’m so grateful for and I will cherish those magical moments for the rest of my life, as we introduced a precious new life into this world. As life goes, we had to contend with a few complications, including gestational diabetes. As a result, the doctors decided we needed to induce labor and December 10 was the date it was to happen. The day we found this out, I spent about an hour on the phone with the intended mother, where we both
Matching Time!
What a joyful day it is! Let me start off by saying I was super nervous to meet the intended parents. I was given their profiles a month ago and almost everyday I read it over and over again. After submitting all of my paperwork the intended parents’ clinic wanted more CBC blood work and also for me to speak to MFM Dr since well I am golden age of 36, that took another week and I got the green light to meet them. First impression is always important. So, I made sure to put on my best blouse and
The Matching Process with NYSC
Lemme tell you a little something about the matching process. Shortly after our initial meeting with the New York Surrogacy Center, we were presented with a potential match. I reassured my husband that we would approach this opportunity with a rational and composed mindset, avoiding any impulsive decisions. We diligently prepared a list of questions to ask during the pre-match meeting. However, when the meeting commenced, it seemed as though our minds went blank. The potential IPs appeared to provide satisfactory responses, and the conversation flowed naturally, creating a sense of comfort and connection. Nevertheless, we decided to take a
Third Trimester
I am currently halfway through my third trimester, at 33.5 weeks. We’ve had some recent setbacks, as I’ve been diagnosed with gestational diabetes. It’s been pretty frustrating because I am doing everything they instruct, and my sugars are still all over the place. This is very new to me, as I did not have it with my two children. We’re still working on controlling the sugars and the baby and I are monitored very closely now, with weekly appointments. The IPs will be coming up in a couple of weeks to attend another ultrasound in person. We’re all looking forward
Second Trimester
Well, the second trimester is here and my belly popped out SO fast. I had bought some clothes for the “inbetween phase” where I am just a little bigger, but don’t look pregnant yet. I didn’t even get to wear them. I woke up one morning and suddenly had a preggo belly. This is my 3rd pregnancy, so my body just knew what to do, I guess! We text with the IPs a few times a week usually, keeping up on each other’s lives and giving updates with how I’m feeling. I still can’t eat a lot of different foods,
First Trimester
Things with this pregnancy are pretty different in comparison to the pregnancies with my own children. I have a lot of nausea and the baby doesn’t seem to like much of anything I eat. It gets pretty frustrating at times, especially when trying to decide what to cook for dinner! My family, both immediate and extended, are very excited for me to be on this journey and have been very supportive. My son is 13 and I’m the first person he’s close with that he’s seen go through a pregnancy. He’s been very interested in seeing sonogram photos and has
Getting Started with NYSC
Application process was smoothly and swiftly. Joe and Mackenzie made it simple and easy to follow the checklist. I submitted my application early part of September, I had to get updated pap and bloodwork. My obgyn approved for the continuous process of becoming surrogate. Drug screening was right around the corner, plus background check was super fast. Anytime during the application process I asked question via email, response was received within 24 hours which speaks great volumes. Next up matching with IP so gritty about that process Peace ☮️ out Saquise
The Pre-Screening Process with NYSC
Lemme tell you a lil' somethin about... pre-screening. Initially, I had gone through "Surrogacy Is" for my advocacy and gateway into the world of surrogacy. They set me up with a few options, and ultimately, New York surrogacy Center is the one that I chose. I am forever happy with that decision. Joe and Shanika were there with me every step of the way. Whether it be early in the morning or late at night; I would get an answer to all of my questions. Starting with the application process, I would have to say it could not be more
The One With the Embryo Transfer
After legal was complete, we waited for my cycle to start again before preparing for the embryo transfer process. I then had an appointment at the IVF Clinic to run labs and an ultrasound for baseline levels. I started most of my medications the same day. I returned a week later for repeat labs and ultrasound and started the progesterone suppository and progesterone in oil (PIO) injections two days later. At this point I only having slight side effects from the medications. Each day was different, though; a couple days I felt VERY hungry as if I was already eating
Agency Pre-Screening
The agency pre-screening/application process, hmmmm, what a long process it is! Hi, I’m Anna and I’m in the process of applying and becoming a surrogate for some of the absolute best people I know. So, the pre-screening and application process is tedious and takes time and patience…but for one of the greatest gifts I’ll ever be able to give someone, worth it! It basically starts with the application and sending of all documents needed for surrogacy. Medical records, release forms, financial information, criminal background check, and many others. If all of that goes through and looks well and good, you
